Personally I don't really have internal monologs or musings while I'm talking, unless the exchange is very inauthentic and there's something like a parallel track running that you can't say out loud because it would be rude or such, like you think someone is idiotic and wrong, but have to say something vaguely polite? But normally I'm not multitasking thoughts while speaking or listening.
Yeah, this is me -- I don't really multitask on thoughts at all? (Which is why I guess I find it SO hard to calm down once I'm frustrated/angry.) And even if I'm internally disagreeing or something, I'm not thinking about what I think instead, just feeling a "disagree" emotion, if that makes sense. I do re-run conversations in my head a lot after they're over, but not at all at the time.
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Date: 2020-02-11 03:02 pm (UTC)Yeah, this is me -- I don't really multitask on thoughts at all? (Which is why I guess I find it SO hard to calm down once I'm frustrated/angry.) And even if I'm internally disagreeing or something, I'm not thinking about what I think instead, just feeling a "disagree" emotion, if that makes sense. I do re-run conversations in my head a lot after they're over, but not at all at the time.